EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED.....WHAT? 01/12/2010
![]() I am sure many of you have been told from little on to plan for that rainy day. To always be prepared and ready "just in case." Well, I do understand that way of thinking and we all want to be safe and secure. But doesn't always expecting the unexpected go completely against that little voice inside of us that always wants to see the glass half full or believe in positive thinking. I mean really, based on thinking is believing and seeing ourselves in any particular situation will most likely get us there, then why in the world would I always want to be thinking of the unexpected....because that is a shoe-in that it will actuall happen, right? I had a freak thing happened to me over the New Year...in fact, Jan. 2 and although I know things happen I would never have expected this to happen, nor would I want to have it on my mind all of the time thinking it might. I normally got out of a car and before my left foot hit the ground something in my hip just popped! In put me in the hospital for 5 days not being able to even lift my leg off of the bed. Long story short...nothing broke, just something in my hip and pelvic area just popped out of alignment. With the pain, I would have bet I broke my hip and my leg! Thankfully, no and I never would have expected that to happen just by getting out of a car. Back to the thinking about what might happen... I still prefer to think of all the things I want to happen in my life and not the ones I am afraid that might happen. Call it naive or just plan stupid, but I always choose to see the glass half full and quite frankly picture it always overflowing. Yes, I know there may be twists and turns and road blocks and set backs sometimes, but just know that too shall pass and only make you stronger. Although often easier said than done, it is always best to keep on keepin' on and move forward to what you really want out of life...expected or not. CommentsStarla Tue, 12 Jan 2010 13:13:04 I completely understand what you are talking about. My mother has always told me to save for a rainy day....and it seems that a LOT of my days are "rainy." I know she meant that I should always be prepared for the unexpected, but I am like you, I choose to hope for the best and think positive. Over the years, this has just taught me to take everything in stride and to not get upset when that glass gets turned over and is temporarily "empty." Life always goes on and we just need to adjust to whatever comes along. Deliah Tue, 12 Jan 2010 13:16:14 I am so sorry to hear about what happened to you. You never know what is going to be waiting for you right around the corner. Keep up those positive thoughts and it will get better. Leave a Reply |

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